Sexually Frustrated and Commited..!?

OK, lot's of questions, all the same answer. Remain friends, but ditch the "one and only" stuff immediately! Now is the time to develop social skills by going out with all kinds of people, having fun, and playing the field. Even if you two had been together all this time, my bets are on your being tired of each other by now. That's just how it works. The force separation has made it seem that it was more than it was. For everything there is a season. Now is your season to get experience under your belt. Tomorrow (actually, many, many moons from now) is the time to settle down, and even then, the average gay guy doesn't settle down for real until the 3rd lover. Nasty statistics, but real. GW